I am writing in response to a post submitted on Nov 7 by Newyorkmama.
I helped organized the evening with the principal that took place at the school this past Tuesday.
Just under sixty people attended the event, including District 3 Superintendent Dr. Roser Salavert and Councilwoman Gale Brewer. I salute Robin Sundick, her staff, Parent Coordinator, two AP's, and the parents whose children attend the school. Every one of the people I encountered during the planning of the event was receptive, encouraging and helpful.
The school is full of parents who not only work full-time, but who also live a distance a way and have more than one child. Thus, some folks helped a little, some a lot, some not at all. The success of the evening was due to the sum total of everyone's efforts, whether those efforts reflected an encouraging phone conversation or word in the school hallway, handing out fliers, editing materials, or volunteering that night.
I have visited public schools for the last two years, trying to find the right one for my daughter, just like everyone with a school age child. My understanding from principals and parents alike is that the success of any school rests on the combined exertions of both the administration and families. I imagine that even in the best of circumstances, the alliance between a principal and his or her parent body must be a sensitive one to navigate.
After all, as parents, we are concerned with our children: our focus is specific and direct. I know that when I encounter a problem in the care of my child, I want to fix it immediately. Principals are concerned with the same agenda, but must accomplish their work while working with unions, procedures and laws.
While this relationship is tricky, it also bears positive outcomes. Conflict and confrontation, when combined with a similar purpose can create effective, creative solutions. Passivity breeds stagnation.
I don't know what will happen at P.S. 84 on the Upper West Side of Manhattan. If the evening's turn-out - by prospective parents, current parents and the school's adminsitration - is any indication, there is every reason to hope that positive change for the children and community are just around the corner.